And given what it’s been like to work in healthcare over the past two years, a sense of groundedness has had to be at the heart of their relationship. ‘We’ve seen a lot of sadness in our jobs. You see how fast your entire life can change’. As they navigated a difficult world of loss and uncertainty at work, Helen and Vicky found the romance in sitting down to practically and rationally plan the next phase of their lives together.
Getting engaged wasn’t a grand romantic gesture, it was how they could ensure the other was being cared for. ‘When I told my grandma’, Helen said, ‘she agreed, and told us that caring for and protecting one another should always be at the heart of getting married’.
They both opted for diamond solitaire engagement rings in the end. For Helen, rich rose gold. For Vicky, a classic platinum setting. ‘When we were in our consultation one design that kept coming back to me was a ring we’d seen in an antique shop. It had a crown shaped basket that I loved and the rest of the design evolved around it’. Once Vicky saw Helen’s crown-inspired setting taking shape, she decided she wanted the same.